Why did we choose to homeschool? I receive this question all the time. I received it a lot more 5 years ago, before the homeschool movement had inundated the area in which I live. I thought about this question a lot, there are a ton of reasons so I decided to write down our mission statement back in 2010 when my kids were tiny and I started teaching my first child at home. You see, I knew the days would be long and the journey hard. I am constantly reminded that the divine things in life are hard and produce perseverance, which leads to great gains; marriage, child raising, college, discipline, spiritual life, etc to name but a few.
Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, wea have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, 2through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And web boast in the hope of the glory of God. 3Not only so, but wec also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
- ...because I love being with my children, being with them all day means the corrections I make into their lives are more readily excepted because they have been with me all day and their hearts are receptive to my instruction. If they run off to school, they would be at school more hours than with their momma.
- ... because crazy schedules and busy days make me anxious and grouchy.
- ... because doing homework after 8 hours of school seems insane and I wonder when they get to be kids and play outside and use their imaginations?
- ... because my kids try my patience and shape and change me as a believer and that makes me a better mother. Not more "me" time or break time, its the pressure that refines me most days.
- ... because I want to plan what they learn and see the progress, I want to slow down and speed up based on the child's gifted'ness and struggles. No child walks or talks or crawls on cue to a schedule, nor does a child learn to read, write or memorize.
- ... because I care more about my children's character than their intelligence and character is forged at home with a loving parent who instructs and guides and prays for wisdom.
- ... because my Faith in Jesus is a significant part of my life and I want my kids to see that lived out - the great and the ugly. I want them to hear me ask for forgiveness and hear me pray for more patience. I also want to start the morning in prayer and bible and not rush off to an institution that doesn't enforce my core beliefs.
- ... because I'm not a morning person and the idea of waking my kids up at 6:00 am just sounds like torture! Call me selfish or lazy - I don't mind, I love my sleep and I'm a better mother because of it!
- ... because my children are uniquely designed and therefore need unique learning opportunities.
- ... because life is short and I only get to be a mom for a few decades, I don't want to miss a thing!
- ... because I hate making lunches and school food is full of
crap, harmful additives that I don't want my children to consume.
- ... because I think that heading to the Zoo is just as valuable, if not more so, than sitting at a desk.
- ... because children learn by moving and wiggling and asking a bazillion questions - something an institution isn't capable of managing with 20-30 kids per class and is often annoyed at.
- ... because testing produces anxiety and is a horrible way of evaluating the intelligence of children - especially in the younger grades.
- ... because schools are all geared towards instructing girls and do not recognize that boys and girls are not created the same and do not learn the same ways (Read: Why Gender Matters). Since I have two boys - it didn't seem very logical to me to send them off to receive a feminized education.
- ... because no teacher is committed to the success of my children, more than I am!
- ... because I am made of flesh and I am very selfish when left to my own devices, I know if my kids were off at school all day I would waste my hours away and loose focus on the ideals God has set in my heart for our family.
- ... because God has called me to homeschool since Drew was just a tiny little baby - something that wasn't very popular. God always directs me to His perfect plan and I learned a long time ago that obedience produces great faith and blessing.
- ... because it never felt natural to me to send them to a bus stop or drop them off at school 5 days a week.
- ... because family is important and I want my children to love one another - to be united and a team - homeschooling naturally produces this environment.
- ... because I am blessed with a husband and a job that also support this lifestyle. I also live in a great state that has a lot of like minded homeschooling moms.
Also - remember to smile Momma - its contagious!